tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-124749183316796602.post841839449551913791..comments2024-03-07T22:54:23.588-05:00Comments on Optimistic Voices: Stand By Me (Ben E. King)Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16635551444187069828noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-124749183316796602.post-70472596052980823012009-05-27T23:07:38.951-04:002009-05-27T23:07:38.951-04:00Hey, Eileen ~
I cannot begin to tell you how touc...Hey, Eileen ~<br /><br />I cannot begin to tell you how touched I am that you commented - it means much to hear from those on my home front... when I feel so removed (geographically and otherwise). It is such a crazy rollercoaster journey (your description is perfect) and I just want to do right by mom, in whatever time frame we're allowed - I've sensed her strong relief since my arrival, and I feel honored I can help with this transition...Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16635551444187069828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-124749183316796602.post-4043088824147463852009-05-27T21:53:48.012-04:002009-05-27T21:53:48.012-04:00To take care of others and to be taken care of by ...To take care of others and to be taken care of by others. The best relationships enjoy this waxing and waning, ebbing and flowing. Whatever your mother is going through, she knows that your hands and heart are there. You are missed and loved and your family, especially your mother, are being prayed for. Love, EileenAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-124749183316796602.post-40722508293252140912009-05-26T20:57:42.153-04:002009-05-26T20:57:42.153-04:00Hey, Catherine ~
Your thoughts of strength and co...Hey, Catherine ~<br /><br />Your thoughts of strength and courage are coming at the right time - just when I tell myself I can't do this anymore... I somehow manage to keep doing it. Straight through feels like a relief, after all the circuitous paths we've taken to get to this place - it could be days, weeks or months... but we're ready... <3Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16635551444187069828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-124749183316796602.post-33372869752122333462009-05-26T16:07:16.890-04:002009-05-26T16:07:16.890-04:00Dear Susan - This is the most difficult time...the...Dear Susan - This is the most difficult time...there is no way but to go straight through. Sending you, your dear Mother and your siblings constant thoughts of strength and courage. And glad that a beautiful bubble of love encircles you all.<br /><br />CatherineCatherinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05558563081809271459noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-124749183316796602.post-53041957841134226862009-05-26T08:39:09.519-04:002009-05-26T08:39:09.519-04:00Hey, sharon ~
Oh, thank you for weighing in with ...Hey, sharon ~<br /><br />Oh, thank you for weighing in with such wisdom and concern - I was planning to go to exercise class this morning... but mom had a bad night and it looks as if I'll be staying here (I'll try to get out walking later while one of the neighbors visits)...<br /><br />I'm realizing more and more that, in addition to circling the wagons, we need to expand the support circle such that the responsibility is equally spread - maybe because I live far away, I think I need to make up for lost time while I'm here...<br /><br />I will most certainly pass on your best wishes and love to mom... and keep some for myself - I cherish our abiding friendship... <3Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16635551444187069828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-124749183316796602.post-72255980160231918302009-05-26T06:38:05.674-04:002009-05-26T06:38:05.674-04:00susan
Sorry to hear about your mom. All i can do ...susan<br /><br />Sorry to hear about your mom. All i can do is send you my love and wishes for taking good care of yourself. Stressful times and times when everyone else needs our care, means that we have to be more intent on keeping ourselves in a centered place. Remember you dont have to shoulder it all, share the burden, there is enough to go around. <br /><br />Please send your mom my best wishes and love. She is a spunky woman who has lived her life as she has wanted. She has three beautiful, well intended, caring, loving children and many grandchildren. I am sorry that her health has declined as it has. <br /><br />Know i am thinking of you during this time and always.onesmallhearthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03583105493122862777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-124749183316796602.post-56248632997730866782009-05-24T10:44:37.885-04:002009-05-24T10:44:37.885-04:00Hey, (other) Kate ~
You *know* I feel your intent...Hey, (other) Kate ~<br /><br />You *know* I feel your intentions streaming my way - I promise to follow your advice, and I feel blessed to have so much love and support during this transitional time in my/our life...Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16635551444187069828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-124749183316796602.post-70986217882939392052009-05-24T10:41:41.445-04:002009-05-24T10:41:41.445-04:00Hey, Darius ~
Thank you *so* much for checking in...Hey, Darius ~<br /><br />Thank you *so* much for checking in - my Star Maker Machine "family" is important to me, and I've missed contributing, even if I had good reason...<br /><br />I appreciate your offer and your compassion - as my circle widens, my anxiety decreases... <3Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16635551444187069828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-124749183316796602.post-35337538133136694692009-05-24T10:28:33.348-04:002009-05-24T10:28:33.348-04:00Susan--my prayers and intentions have been with yo...Susan--my prayers and intentions have been with you and will continue. This is hard; I know from 1st-hand experience. If there is anything I can do...including coming up there, just let me know. Every now & then, just stop, breathe and feel all the love everyone is sending you...it will help. Love, KateAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-124749183316796602.post-87834819611964987742009-05-24T00:29:45.896-04:002009-05-24T00:29:45.896-04:00I'm sorry I haven't been in touch. I was hoping th...I'm sorry I haven't been in touch. I was hoping that your recent absence from Star Maker was not bad news.<br /><br />The closest I have had to your present experience was when my wife's grandmother passed on. She needed prednisone towards the end too; it's nasty stuff that can alter the patient's emotions in unpleasant ways. I hope someone warned you about that.<br /><br />My heart goes out to you. If you need a friendly cyber-ear, please feel free to send me an e-mail; I will try to respond promptly.Dariushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11256856556935958361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-124749183316796602.post-84269250584671465102009-05-23T14:49:01.982-04:002009-05-23T14:49:01.982-04:00Hey, Kate ~
How lovely to hear from you - I'...Hey, Kate ~ <br /><br />How lovely to hear from you - I've been worried, since you so rarely post to your wonderful blog anymore!<br /><br />I am so sorry to hear you are going through a similar situation - it's hard in so many ways. Next week will be busy, as I make so many phone calls, trying to figure this whole thing out - I know there are resources and support, and we're just trying to "circle the wagons" such that mom knows how loved and cared for she is, right up until...<br /><br />My father passed away almost 14 years ago, so I too will be an orphan - I've felt lucky to have mom this long. One of her friends/neighbors who is a nurse told me that she feels it will be June or July - we are trying to find the balance between hope and reality...<br /><br />Your thoughts and hugs are much appreciated - please know I send mine in your direction as well... and let's keep each other posted, okay?... <3Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16635551444187069828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-124749183316796602.post-8980638037158132072009-05-23T14:15:44.247-04:002009-05-23T14:15:44.247-04:00Susan,
We are, indeed, living parallel lives right...Susan,<br />We are, indeed, living parallel lives right now ... hospice has already prepared the "go gently into that good night" kit for my mother.<br />My mom's COPD is taking her away day by day. Her oxygen is set at 7, I believe, and just transporting from her wheelchair to her wheelchair lift is exhausting to her. <br />I know this is the summer I'll lose my mother. Dad died July of '07. I do not know what it will feel like to be an orphan; I am in no hurry to find out. I always thought I would be Duncan and Pat's daughter.<br />What will it be like to no longer be someone's daughter?<br />Is your father living?<br />My thoughts are with you.<br />Hugs,<br />KathleenKathleen Standerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08049786629804104315noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-124749183316796602.post-35146020906598048112009-05-23T01:54:33.507-04:002009-05-23T01:54:33.507-04:00Hey, Maria ~
I am so touched you would stop in to...Hey, Maria ~<br /><br />I am so touched you would stop in to comment - I cherish your love and prayers and already feel them surrounding me... <3Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16635551444187069828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-124749183316796602.post-27606294823979072022009-05-23T01:52:28.801-04:002009-05-23T01:52:28.801-04:00Hey, Amy ~
Thanks for your prayers, your kind wor...Hey, Amy ~<br /><br />Thanks for your prayers, your kind words and your boundless love and hugs - this is the hardest thing I've ever had to do... and it's just beginning...Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16635551444187069828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-124749183316796602.post-71614829618815015232009-05-22T21:54:11.540-04:002009-05-22T21:54:11.540-04:00Susan, I love you and you and mom are in my prayer...Susan, I love you and you and mom are in my prayers. <br /><br />MariaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-124749183316796602.post-1859008237917921712009-05-22T19:05:00.564-04:002009-05-22T19:05:00.564-04:00[hugs] Love you. Your mom is so lucky to have a d...[hugs] Love you. Your mom is so lucky to have a daughter like you. Praying for you all.Amynoreply@blogger.com